Dating has to start somewhere… so how to get a girl to like you is probably one of the most vital bits of information any male can acquire. Yet strangely, it seems it’s also one of the most elusive.

David DeAngelo, author of the best-selling Double Your Dating, says one of the best ways is to spend time watching guys who know what’s up as they interact with women. And the key to this is to observe the process… not just what’s said, but the attitude, the tone, the body language and all that goes with it.

It’s vital, he says, to learn the skill rather than to get the girl.

“I honestly believe that you can improve your success with women dramatically if you choose to do it,” he says. “And you learn how to do it.”

DeAngelo says that learning starts with stopping sitting there wishing for things to change and hoping that a super-model jumps off the TV screen, and making it happen for yourself.

“I’ve spent a lot of time now figuring out the things you need to do to increase your success with women,” he says, “and I honestly believe that any man can do it, if he takes action.”

Reading into that, I think one of the other keys is that you keep yourself our of it – make this a totally impersonal process until you’ve got at least a rough plan figured out.

For instance, I used to have a friend who would always get upset if any guy ever talked to any of the women he had talked to. Of course, he never had any success with ANY of the women in the end.

On the other hand, I have a few friends who could care less if you talk to ALL of the women they’re talking to… they just don’t get jealous.

Guess what? They’re all the most successful guys I know when it comes to women and dating.

Coincidence? I think not…

DeAngelo is quite specific. To put this whole thing differently, he says, it’s so important to always try to get the LESSON in a particular situation instead of the GIRL in that particular situation.

If you don’t get the lesson, you’ll keep banging your head against the wall… but if you GET THE LESSON in a situation, it will help you for the rest of your life. Get the lesson, and don’t worry about the particular girl. It’s never worth it to take things personally in these types of situations.

Create Chemistry & A Girl Will Like You

David responded to a reader who mentioned that he went to a pub and got into a conversation with a girl…

“You only HINTED at the nature of the conversation, but from experience, I know exactly what the ‘vibe’ was,” he writes.

“You asked your friend what he ordered you, and a girl nearby teased you and said “A Zima”.

“And I’d be willing to bet you a dollar that you DIDN’T answer her by acting like a WUSSY.

“Nooooooo, no.

“You knew what to do.

“You now understand something that’s KEY.

“You now “get” how to have a conversation with a woman that sparks ATTRACTION and actually CREATES “chemistry” and sexual tension.”

David says that in the past when that reader interacted with women he probably did the same thing that most of the guys on the planet do… he behaved like an EXTRA NICE GUY.

“You never said anything ‘edgy’, you always let the WOMAN lead the conversation, you never said anything controversial, and you always carefully listened to what she said so you kept the conversation ‘positive’.

“You know what I’m talking about… that friendly, sterile, no-tension, artificially sugar-coated nice-guy kind of conversation?

“The kind that every one of us guys tries to keep going when we meet a girl we like… or we take a girl out on a date, etc…

“The kind that attractive women HATE… and the kind that bores women to TEARS!”

DeAngelo says that what’s interesting to him is how INSTANTLY women respond to overly-confident, fun, energy-charged banter… and how women RUN from guys who use the “I’m such a nice guy, and I want you to like me” kind of talk.

If you’re at that point in your life where you’ve turned an age that’s getting you down… or you’ve just broken up with a woman that you’ve been together with for a long time… or something else has you feeling like you’re never going to be able to “get your groove back” when it comes to women, then LISTEN UP.

It does NOT have to be that way.

If you’re ready for an IN-DEPTH education on everything from overcoming fear and approaching women… to getting numbers and dates… and taking things to a “physical level”, then you MUST get your hands on a copy of David DeAngelo’s eBook “Double Your Dating,” and you need to do it NOW.

It’s his original manual for success with women and dating, and it’s the place to get started if you want to take your success with women to the next level.

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