It’s a big question, isn’t it – how to win love back?

So big, it completely paralyzes a lot of people. But if you’re serious about winning back your love, here’s a shortcut… go and get a copy of The Magic Of Making Up.

In this ebook, T Dub Jackson explains many reasons why we fall out of love with our partners.  And more importantly, he explains the techniques you can use to get your groove back.

The Secret to Winning Back Love

It’s never too late to rediscover the passion and love you felt for your partner or ex partner, he says.  The secret is learning how to communicate properly.

He goes through certain things like when you are trying to sort out a problem you should always use sentences starting with I rather than you.  “I feel hurt when you come home late from work” is a lot better than “you are always late home from work”.

The first is explaining how you feel and should lead to a discussion about whether the working late can be fixed and if not, how you can work around it.

But the second sounds like an attack and if you deliver it just as the person walks through the door after a long day, it is easy to see how it can escalate into an argument.

Often we say things in the heat of the moment that either aren’t true or are an exaggeration of how we are really feeling.  An example would be when you are fed up with your partner but you tell them you hate them. You don’t really hate them as a person but perhaps their behavior is a problem.

Love’s Blame Cycle

When you are in the middle of a relationship that isn’t working as well as it could, it is very easy to get caught up in a cycle of blame. You hold the other person responsible for everything that is going wrong.

This isn’t fair nor is it likely to be true.  All too often, it is both parties who are causing the problems.  Unfortunately, one or other of you will have to be brave enough to take a stand and try and sort it out.

Leaving it to fester will lead to the end of your partnership.

When you have already split up and are trying to win your lover back, you need to go back over the last few months or even year of your relationship and see what went wrong. Ask your ex to meet up and be honest about your reasons. Don’t expect them to read your mind and know that you want to rekindle the love affair.

Also, don’t expect miracles either. You didn’t break up overnight so you are unlikely to be able to fix all your problems overnight either.  But given the right attitude and some good luck and great advice, you should soon know how to win love back and be happy again.

What have you got to lose?  A little bit of pride is a small price to pay to win love back… now isn’t it?

Practical Relationship Break Up Advice

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