How to get your ex back is one of the most common questions after a breakup. But the more important question is: what did you learn from the experience?

Yes, there are ways to get your ex back – you’ll find some of the easiest in The Magic of Making Up – but if you haven’t figured out why you’re apart in the first place, even that advice won’t help you in the long run.

Ah, the niggling’s started, hasn’t it? “Why does…